Moody Partner: Sharing Love Abundantly in Special Needs Families

I've found knowing about the five love languages to be so helpful as a wife, mom, and teacher.  So when I found out that Jolene Philo who blogs about special needs kids at Different Dreams mentioned that she was looking for parents to interview as part of a project. I jumped at the opportunity!

Here is an example of what the love languages are and how to live them out at home.  But with special needs children, many who are unable to express themselves accurately or at all, it can be much more challenging to implement the love languages in your home.  That's where this new version of the book comes in.

Overall Review:  This book helps you live out the most important fruit of the Spirit- Love.  It gives practical, fun, and personable ways to live in abundant love even when the one you love functions in a unique manner.  But more importantly, it is a great reminder for the reader that love is love and whether you are loving your spouse, neurotypical child, or special needs child, or friend, the focus needs to be on your heart and the receiver's heart and the goal needs to be attacked not as a fix, but as a way to have a connected, solid relationship with another human being.  Joy should be in this connection, in any love language and life.  This is the reason we chose to parent a child from a hard place who sought out love in the most unlovable ways.  We had the Holy Spirit equipping us to share unconditional love as our only real job.  

Things I liked about the book:

• Fast, easy read. (less than 2 hours even with interruptions)
• Design of the book- for special needs families- but also for teachers, caregivers, therapists, doctors/nurses, anyone who works with special needs kids. 
• Book formatting
• information extras: defines ABLE account, IEP, 504 in a grayscale box
• summaries: key questions or tips in grayscale boxes
• easy to read and refer back to: headings, subheadings, grayscale boxes, etc.   
• chapter summaries- some are: putting it all together, others are tips, or bulleted concepts to apply
• appendix of resources (those not included directly in the book text)
• diverse perspective- 40 families are represented in the stories of this book and their real life examples are the ideas.   
• Content of the book is beyond the love languages, it includes ways to enjoy and support your child and encouragement that it's not your job to fix anything about your child, but to love them well and remind their team of support people that this is the key to quality life and growth.  
• The truth: practical tips from experience shared about meeting your child's most important need- unconditional love.  
• New experts opinions shared and I have new resources to consult for support.  

What I wondered about or could be tweaked:

• I wanted even more time on ideas, strategies, tips from those in the trenches. 
• I was surprised at the time spent on loving your spouse, caring for your marriage, and caretaker care, but I do know that all of this truly needs investment even when there isn't time in the stress of parenting a special needs child, but you can love abundantly without your tank being full. 
• Lack of scripture and biblical input throughout the book

Some quotes/memes:

this book is a simple and effective tool...

Thankful to partner with Moody Publishing and have an advance copy to review. 

Waterbrook Partner: The Jesus Who Surprises Us by Dee Brestin

This book's premise is built on the passage in Luke where Jesus joined the two disciples on the road to Emmaus, and they didn't recognize Him.  I decided to review this book and bible study because this passage is dear to my heart, and I wanted to see how a book and Bible study was created from it.  I only remember reading one other book from Dee Brestin, this was her first well known book The Friendship of Women and I read it in high school.  So I don't remember much about it.  But I know that she has become a well known author and has several books and bible studies. 

Things I like about this book:

• Free videos to go with it, done by Dee Brestin with teaching she shares, as well as hearing from some of the 21 women who she piloted the study with before the book was published.  
• How the videos are done.  Dee Brestin's teaching style includes passion, joy, and she is pleasant to learn from.  They are between 10-14 minutes long.  
• It's a study that you can do alone, with a small group, or a large group.  
• It's all in one book.  You don't have to buy a separate study book. It even includes facilitator tips and notes.  
• The book could be read as a stand alone, and the book embraces the perspective of how to see God in your days.  She calls it a weekly God Hunt, and layers in different ways to be alert to God.  
• Bible Study goes through Jesus (often unknown) appearances in Genesis, Psalms, Isaiah, representing that Jesus is across the whole Bible.  
• You could easily do the study whether you had time to read the pages in between or not.  It's a five day plan, and it's achievable in a few minutes, but it's rich with questions that will help you think at a higher level about the scripture you are reading.  
• Quotes, references, and examples from many, many well known authors and theologians intertwined. 
• The book and study if taken to heart, require introspection and thinking more deeply about your mindset, actions, and beliefs to know the Lord intimately.  But the author leads you to this, and it builds from lesson to lesson well.  

Things that gave me pause or to consider: 

• this book seems written for those who have biblical literacy and know the Lord as Savior.  
• Dee Brestin uses sophisticated language and vocabulary, so not every woman may grasp what she's sharing.  (I'm a regular reader with an extensive vocabulary and paused at a few words new to me.)   
• the notes about the study completion might make some ladies uncomfortable (if they read them).  Notes about "the richest groups are when people have done their homework."  I know in our studies, we know this is best, but we know it doesn't always happen, and encourage women to come even unprepared, as they can still learn from the discussion.  

Thankful to partner with Waterbrook Multnomah and be able to read an advance copy of this book. 

Victory in Jesus: Bible Object Lessons About Jesus for Kids by Anne Marie Gosnell

I had the privilege of reviewing the first three lessons in this book.


Here's what I like about it:

• Good Bible Teaching- great ways to tell the events of Jesus life and key people, events, and elements included in the plan.  
• Materials Preparation extras provided. The author thinks like a teacher, and has prepared the 'extras' for you. On her website, you will find a poster for each lesson, maps to show locations, etc.  This is in her How the Book Works section at the start. 
• Author Notes/Tips: The author's note/opening before the lessons- when you are teaching a Bible story- she suggests you not just call it a story- this confuses kids- and is a literature term that they often associate with fiction- or untrue stories.  Use your Bible, have children use their Bibles! (Amen!)
• Geography included: Show the location.  Each lesson gives you the location of the Bible text you will be reading, and she will have maps shared on her website to use with the object lessons. 
• Background Notes provided - I took a little breathe when I read and I give you some notes to help put the story in place- thinking all these added details are going to make this confusing to read, but NO, I was wrong- She is a teacher, and she has pointed, simple statements that are really helpful!! But so simple and direct!  
• Background Notes- connect the Old Testament to this New Testament event, or to the event before this one.  Building the connections from the previous book of the Bible or event.  
• Simple objects- not things that will be hard to provide.
• Teacher Comment box- encouraging YOU to reflect on your delivery of this lesson- and plan to improve- plus a simple tip- like "Try to bring Jesus and Salvation into every lesson you teach."   

We must be kindred teacher friends- Anne Marie Gosnell plans a lesson that I love and would use on my own.  I love that she is succinct, to the point, and it's so simple to follow and the goal is present.

Things to tweak:

• Learning Target in Overview: I wish the goal/objective of the lesson was listed in the initial overview of the lesson.  It's in the opening paragraph, but is easily just read over, and I'm not sure some of our teachers (who are not trained teachers) would think- this is what I repeat over and over throughout the lesson.  And she ends the lesson part with a bold statement for the life application, and part of the goal is also to make clear a characteristic of God, but if it's not present til the end, will we all catch and value that aspect?  
• Object List: a list at the start of the book or on the website- that shares all the objects used in the lessons, so you realize that this book is for you, as those are common household things and easy to own or borrow.  
• Scripture References: In lesson two, the gospel was presented with verses, but those references weren't identified or shared, and if it's important for children to look at the passage where the event comes from, it would also be helpful to see scripture that isn't in 'stories' but is in letters or teaching from important people, come from the Bible.  
• Word Choice/Concept Choice in Life Applications.   As in any material finding the best phrase, descriptive word, etc to convey your point, varies from person to person. In the 2nd lesson, in life application, the author suggests that God wants us to make smart christians in how we read and think about His Word.  For my program and ministry, we have been emphasizing that we need to have a relationship with God that is personal, knowledgeable, and connected to both our head/heart.  So I would alter that sentence when I delivered the concept.  In the same lesson, she talks about Jesus wearing a "costume" since He was God and man.  I like this word choice and description on some levels, but also think that it could confuse children- thinking that it was pretend or something, as that is when kids wear costumes.  This one, I'm still pondering what I think about.  That's why this is my tweak.  

Thankful to partner with Future Flying Saucers and have an opportunity to review the first three lessons of the book before release.  I've already ordered the Old Testament book for this fall's sunday school lessons!  

Bethany House Partner Review: Exhale by Amy Carroll & Cheri Gregory

This book's subtitle is: lose who you're not, love who you are, live your one life well.  

The book is divided into these three categories and it works.  I read lots of spiritual growth/self help christian books, and this one stands out.  The biggest difference is that this book addresses our mindset, and directly encourages us to change our mindset.  But instead of describing a fixed versus growth mindset, as the world does.  The authors choose to suggest we have a new mindset.  And I see that new mindset as one who is a new creature in Christ, looking to God to lead not her own sin nature.  It's the age old struggle of old vs. new, but sin vs. living in Christ.  

Here are some memes to help share the thinking.  

The book shares biblical examples and scripture that fit the mindset we are to adopt.  It is well formatted as each chapter ends with one of the three subtitles and a breathe moment which is a suggestion of how to take the concepts and move ahead.  There are subtitles throughout the pages and it's so easy to read, not so easy to take the suggestions to heart, but I found them to be exactly what my heart and mind needs to grow.  

This book I really enjoyed, but at the same time I had a hard time picking it up.  As I got further and further into it, I figured out why.  This is a book that you can't just read.  It requires introspection.  Self analysis.  And it makes you accountable to think, process, and recognize your actions.  The authors even link you to their website with extra tools ready to print and use.  And my old nature didn't want me to stop and recognize things that could change, especially with self awareness and the power of the Holy Spirit.  It's a book that will be reviewed and reread over time.  It would also make a good Bible study for a group and the authors have created one as well.  Thankful to partner with Bethany House and review this very important new book for Christ following women. 

No Ocean Too Wide (McAlister Family #1 review Waterbrook & Multnomah Partner

Releasing to the world- June 25, 2019.  A great summer read!

This is my favorite book by this author (Carrie Turnasky) so far! What I really loved was the integration of faith, praying to God in the moment, with the history, the character development, and the relationships of this captivating historical fiction book. The way that Laura, Katie, and Andrew learned and strengthened their ability to depend on God is inspiring and helpful for the reader to have their thinking aloud as a model.

Based on a true story, the characters captivate you, and you hear from a few different characters perspectives throughout the novel, adding to your understanding of what's happening in their lives, and how it deepens their trust in God Now I'm waiting for book #2 to learn of other family members experiences and continue to enjoy the story and also the blessings of good character.

Learning about emigration from England to Canada of the children of poverty, the streets, or bad fortune. Carrie Turansky's newest series gives vivid description, images, and heartfelt emotion to this historical era similar to the US orphan trains. But something I knew nothing about.

This is a great read- and even my children grasp why I couldn't just stop reading at a few different points in the book when I shared why I needed to finish a few more pages- believable events but those that kept you reading. I received an advanced copy of the book from Waterbrook Multnomah thankful to partner and read books in advance. 

I don't share a lot of fiction books on my blog because they don't often connect with the whispering the Word theme in our lives. But this book did a great job thinking aloud about faith in life and experiences, and made it a great model for my own heart.  

Mama friends- I read this book in part at the pool.  It's been a long time coming in my life to be able to read fiction, know my kids are safe, and enjoy it.  But when your youngest is nine years old and brings a friend, I don't have to watch her every move at the waterpark, and I was able to read the book.  Your turn is coming too in the years of raising littles and we spread ours out with four years between kids, you too will get to read by the pool again one day.  

Niko's Night and Day connections for learning

Concordia has a preview on their website

Here are some questions that connect with the story.

Here are scriptures that fit the story from Luke 15....and the book theme

This is a great book for young children, families, Sunday School. 

Thankful to read a digital ARC. 

Concordia Publishing Partner Review: Niko's Night and Day by Colleen Oakes, Illustrated by Erin Chan

I'm an elementary educator by training and children's ministry passionate director, so a picture book that focuses on God's creation, but is a traditional story of a child's adventure- is so me!!

I have to start with the illustrator's work- as it makes or breaks most books.  This illustrator I love for children and adults.  I can't wait to see a physical book!  The artwork in this book is the first standout point.  I read an e-version so I can't common on the feel of the book. But the images are texture rich, vibrant colors, a contrast that makes the story look almost 3 d on my screen, and warmth endearing animals, home, and nature.

The author's writing style is child friendly.  It has vivid descriptive words to hear and help imagine the tale, uses an adult friendly writing style, with sophisticated sentence structure, yet not too complex for a child to comprehend. The night 'was deep'.  is an example of descriptive words chosen.  It really makes the story come alive as you hear in the language chosen Niko's full experience- as he kisses his cat goodbye when he heads back to the woods.  There are bold words that connect to character, colors, common emotions, sounds of birds, numbers, excitement, and questions, etc.

The story is of opposites, you see images of day and night in his woods, complete with trees, day and night birds, lake, grassy hollow , field, great grandfather rock,  farthest fence post, etc.  You hear Niko's knowledge that God is big, with him, created his woods as well as the difference between day and night, etc.

It's a rich realistic story that could happen to a child, and if you were to read it aloud and not let your audience see the pictures, you could do a lesson on descriptive words, by having them draw each page as you read, and compare how similar they are to each other's because the author used concrete words.  And clearly painted a mental picture.  For a younger crowd, you could use this book to teach adjectives, compare/contrast, mediums of art, as well as the rich biblical lessons that the author clarifies and shares with the reader before the book is over.  Luke 15 lessons on the parables of the lost fits, as well as making notes about how to think about God in life situations, as Niko recognizes he feels small, but His God is bigger, etc.  And pointing out attributes of God.  You could extend the learning by writing a further Niko adventure if the train hadn't been found, what he does in the morning, or adventures with a specific animal or plant/tree, etc.

I'm not sure about the size of the font, it seems small on my screen, and I've had kids with wavy letter fonts not recognize words the same or think they can't read it like it's cursive.  The print a is a typed a, not the normal learning a, and some children's books are written for early readers with large print and matching handwriting a bit more.  Not a pro/con, just something to consider when you choose a book, this isn't one for the little's to read by themselves early on.

I partnered with Concordia to review a e-copy of the book.  As an educator, parent, and kidmin person, this book has great value and if I had kids at this stage of life/learning, would be worthy of my purchasing for my home library.  I love with an author integrates the walking and talking about Who God is-into a traditional book and does it well with fluent style, great transitions, imagery, and images.  It's a quality product.  I will likely give it as a gift.